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When A Man Loves A Woman He Will Do Anything. Just Ask Dr. Karen!

  When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen! ***To all my on-line readers, I would like to thank each and everyone of you for your continued support and  your comments are appreciated and valued. Have a prosperous, happy, healthy New Year and New You in 2017!   Dear Dr. Karen:   I have been divorced from my wife for several years after enduring verbal abuse towards my children and I. She is still vicious toward me and I can’t find any reasonable explanation for her anger. She is extremely beautiful, and men flock to her, so I am puzzled...

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Should You Be Embarrassed If You Are A 31 Year Old Virgin Man? Ask Dr. Karen!

Dear Dr. Karen: I am a 31-year-old virgin male. I’m overweight and don’t see myself as being worthy of a relationship as I am. But after years of neglect and ignoring myself, I am now making changes to my health that will improve my self-image. I live in a small town with no social life. I am considering going to an escort service just to experience what I should have experienced 15 years ago. I don’t know if I’m asking for answers or advice I just wanted to see what you think.  Sexually Deprived Dear Sexually Deprived: You are linking...

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Should A Wife Refuse Her Cheating Husband Sex? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!     Dear Dr. Karen: I caught my husband cheating six months ago. We have been through counseling but it still haunts me. What’s bothering me is that I am always wondering if he will ever do this again. He continues to beg for forgiveness and wants to be romantic again. The thought of him touching me makes me sick. Knowing that he was with another woman is a real turnoff.            I continue to find myself asking him if he is cheating with someone else...

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What Do You Expect When You Move In With A Man Who Promises You Nothing? Ask Dr. Karen

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!   ***To all my on-line readers,  I would like to thank each and every one of you for your continued support and the comments that you make.       Dear Dr. Karen: Several months ago, I met a man at a conference who is seemingly one of a kind. He is considerate, open, and financially stable. Recently, he invited me to move to the city where he lives and stay with him until I find an apartment and a job. I accepted and we now live together.  While at his apartment,...

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Are You A Fool To Stay In A Dead End Relationship? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!     Dear Dr. Karen: I have been intimately involved with a woman for three months. I recently found out that she has also been in a relationship with another man for seven months. We started out as friends and we enjoy each other’s company and I really don’t want to lose that. I am mature and wise enough to know that I’m being played and the entire relationship is a lost cause. I told her I wanted an exclusive relationship. I feel I have the right to know...

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She Wants To Sleep With Two Men. What Should She Do? Ask Dr. Karen

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!       Dear Dr. Karen: I am 22 years old, and currently involved in a wonderful relationship with a man I’ve been with for six months. Recently, I was contacted by another man I dated briefly right after high school on Facebook. I ended the relationship but, I have thought about him many times over the years. We  agreed to meet and the chemistry was very strong. My problem is making a decision. I’ve compared the two, and I keep coming up with feelings for both of them. I’ve done...

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She Met Him On-line And Thinks He Is Gay. How Can You Tell? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!     Dear Dr. Karen: I’m a 20 year old young lady who met a guy online. I live in Chicago and he lives in Canada. We have been communicating for a couple of months. I realize there is some distance between us. He seems to be a nice guy and I like him a lot, but some things just don’t add up. During our conversations he always mentions all of his guys and how they hang out at different clubs several times a week. He talks about how much...

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Should You Tell A Man You Love Him After Sex? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!       Ladies, there are some initial dating tips that we should follow: Keep an air of mystery, make him come to you, leave them wanting more, do not get physical and for heaven’s sake don’t tell them you love them. This week’s reader broke all the rules. Dear Dr. Karen: A friend decided that he wanted our relationship advance to a sexual/dating level. This was probably his objective when we first started hanging out, however, I could not picture us together. He was not my type, and the...

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Can A Second Marriage Succeed If Both Parties Cheated On Their Spouses In The First Marriage? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!     Dear Dr. Karen: What are the chances of a second marriage succeeding if both parties cheated on their spouse in the first marriage?                                    ~ One Time Cheater Dear One Time Cheater: Is there honor among thieves? That is what you are asking. There is honesty to ending a marriage when you don’t love your spouse and don’t believe the marriage should continue. Divorce may not be a pleasant thing under those circumstances, but at least it is an honest thing.   When someone breaks the vow of fidelity while holding onto...

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Should An 18 Year Old Marry His 27 Year Old Pregnant Girlfriend? Ask Dr. Karen!

When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!   <img class="alignnone wp-image-165841" src="https://ionechicagodefender.files.wordpress.com/2016/07/images-31.jpeg?w=142&h=174" alt="images-3.jpeg" width="142" height="174" /> Dear Dr. Karen: My brother told me last night that his girlfriend is pregnant. He is 18 and she is 27. The shocker is he told me he was probably going to marry her, “because that’s the right thing do.” They have only been together 3 months. Within a month they had a pregnancy scare because she refused to use any form of birth control. She said, “it makes her sick.” I told him if this was true,...

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